Etiquettes of listening to others when they speak
Etiquette: When someone is talking, he must be listened with care. If the listener faces any ambiguity in understanding, he must ask the speaker and make it clear. Do not act without understanding and only assuming. Sometimes if someone is requested/ordered to accomplish a task and he starts doing it without clearly understanding, such act fetches pains for the person being served.
Etiquette: When someone is speaking to you, don’t be inattentive towards him. Such behavior hurts the speaker. Especially when someone is speaking for your benefit or answering your question, much more attention must be paid in these situations. Even if there is intimacy between you and speaker to be inattentive while he speaks is very unfair.
Etiquettes relating to visiting the patients
Etiquette: If someone has a blister on his covered limbs (sexual organs etc) do not repeatedly ask him about it. Because, this makes him ashamed.
Etiquette: Return soon after you visit a patient, so that the patient himself or his relatives don’t face troubles. If the patient needs to accomplish a personal task, he must directly tell his visitors that he now needs to be alone. Sometimes in such cases through gesture and posture the patient expresses his intention; however, the visitors don’t understand clearly. As a result, the patient suffers.
From Adabul Muwasharat, Hazrat Thanvi R
Etiquette: When someone is talking, he must be listened with care. If the listener faces any ambiguity in understanding, he must ask the speaker and make it clear. Do not act without understanding and only assuming. Sometimes if someone is requested/ordered to accomplish a task and he starts doing it without clearly understanding, such act fetches pains for the person being served.
Etiquette: When someone is speaking to you, don’t be inattentive towards him. Such behavior hurts the speaker. Especially when someone is speaking for your benefit or answering your question, much more attention must be paid in these situations. Even if there is intimacy between you and speaker to be inattentive while he speaks is very unfair.
Etiquettes relating to visiting the patients
Etiquette: If someone has a blister on his covered limbs (sexual organs etc) do not repeatedly ask him about it. Because, this makes him ashamed.
Etiquette: Return soon after you visit a patient, so that the patient himself or his relatives don’t face troubles. If the patient needs to accomplish a personal task, he must directly tell his visitors that he now needs to be alone. Sometimes in such cases through gesture and posture the patient expresses his intention; however, the visitors don’t understand clearly. As a result, the patient suffers.
From Adabul Muwasharat, Hazrat Thanvi R
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